The government uses force way too indiscriminately to be taken seriously as a moral institution.
Force should only be used in the most severe of circumstances, not for everyday events, like governments commonly do.
And in this category of "force" I include bullying tactics widely used as well.
Things that too often are accepted as "normal" or "fair" by others are anything but. It's just that's we used to people pushing each other around as a society.